Late, I know, and not much from me: I’m just pointing you at these three posts below from Melissa McEwan at Shakesville.
Trauma-Trigger Alert: Melissa describes her own rape in harrowing detail in order to point out how rape is not funny, and although the discussion threads start out thoughtful and interesting, they end up invaded by shockjock fans who troll the thread with graphic threats of rape directed against Melissa and other commenters.
Aren’t we feminists lucky, we get some cyberbullying to go with the defense of rape jokes as well!
Melissa has decided not to delete them in order to show just what sort of threats these jerks perceive as “jokes” that we “need to get a sense of humour” about.
Rape Is Hilarious
Rape Is Hilarious Part II
Rape Is Not Only Hilarious; It’s No Big Deal
Update 4th Feb 2008: Melissa has continued this series, here are the links to the collection thus far. The first post above is Part Five in the list below, the third post above is Part Six, and Liss didn’t include the the second post above in the list below, which I copied from Shakesville today.
[Rape is Hilarious: Parts One, Two, Three, Four, Five, Six, Seven, Eight, Nine, Ten, Eleven, Twelve, Thirteen, Fourteen, Fifteen, Sixteen, Seventeen, Eighteen.]
Cyberbullying:
Kate Harding has a great post in response to the cyberbullying. Let those folks read it who claim that men bloggers get flamed and threatened just as much and as creepily as women bloggers. Suuurrrre they do.
As usual for Feminism Friday, feel free to leave a link to recent Feminism Friday posts from other blogs in comments – your own or others.
Filed under: Feminism Friday, clarifying-concepts, no-sense-of-humour, victimhood, violence | Tagged: cyberbullying, hilarious, jokes, rape, rape-jokes, sexual-assault
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Here’s another great Feminism Friday post: Misogynists Don’t Have Daughters
(via When Fangirls Attack:May 20 roundup)
Seems like Melissa’s website is down.
* Edited in October 2007 to add: the posts have been ported elsewhere – see comment below – tigtog
It was having problems a few hours ago – she put up a post that got linked all over the place and the server’s having trouble coping. I’m sure it will be OK later today or by tomorrow.
The first three links are still 404. =(
Yes, the site’s been DOSsed to hell and back lately. They’re still blogging at the old digs – Shakespeare’s Sister – but I don’t think they’ve been able to port those posts over there.
This comment edited October 2007 to reflect changes in the Shakesville situation noted in comments above. shakesville.com is still down, but the posts have been ported over to wordpress.com, and you can find them at http://shakesville.wordpress.com/.
I’ve updated the post to reflect the new links, and I’ll include here links in full to the later posts in Melissa’s Rape is (Not) Hilarious series:
Teen Rape: Hilarious!
Rape is Hilarious: Put to Music Edition
Rape is Hilarious: Jerry Seinfeld Edition
[...] of regrettable “bad sex”. Melissa McEwan at Shakesville has written quite a lot about how rape jokes bolster rape culture, and posted an excellent essay on the subject of rape jokes this week, and it highlighted a point I [...]
[...] of regrettable “bad sex”. Melissa McEwan at Shakesville has written quite a lot about how rape jokes bolster rape culture, and posted an excellent essay on the subject of rape jokes this week, and it highlighted a point I [...]
[...] a bit of regrettable “bad sex”. Melissa McEwan at Shakesville has written quite a lot about how rape jokes bolster rape culture, and posted an excellent essay on the subject of rape jokes this week, and it highlighted a point I [...]
[...] Harassment jokes ~= rape jokes. Both not [...]
I hear not only rape jokes, but incest and molestation jokes as well. I’m a survivor of 7 years of molestation, and I hear these on a daily basis from people. Not all of them know. But the big shocker: it’s GIRLS making the jokes. Even bigger shocker, one of them was almost raped, and goes around talking about what a feminist she is, and how much guys suck, as well as cracking “jokes” and laughing about the horrible crime.
That’s some pretty disturbing stuff, but I’m not sure I understand the response to Senator Brownback’s statement.
He is, presumably, arguing from a pro-life standpoint (that life begins at conception), so what he’s saying could be boiled down to “A man committing rape doesn’t justify killing his children.” If someone holding that starting belief supports allowing abortion in cases of rape, they’re violating their own principles.
This is in fact part of why I’m not pro-life.